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		<title>Life Tips Part 4 &#8211; Life</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Jan 2011 11:25:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[So far in this series on Life Tips we&#8217;ve looked at some specific tips around health, personality and society.  Today we&#8217;re going to look at the bigger picture and consider some life tips which can have a profound impact on our levels of success. Life Tips for an Awesome Life Do the right thing &#8211; [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So far in this series on Life Tips we&#8217;ve looked at some specific tips around health, personality and society.  Today we&#8217;re going to look at the bigger picture and consider some life tips which can have a profound impact on our levels of success.</p>
<h3>Life Tips for an Awesome Life</h3>
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<li><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-126" title="Live Life to the Full" src="http://www.selfhelpwithjohn.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/Mountain-Vista2.jpg" alt="" width="144" height="192" />Do the right thing &#8211; no matter how attractive the alternative!</li>
<li>Get rid of anything that isn&#8217;t useful, beautiful or joyful.</li>
<li>God heals everything and everyone.</li>
<li>However good or bad a situation is, it will change.</li>
<li>No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.</li>
<li>The best is yet to come.</li>
<li>When you awake alive in the morning, thank God for it.</li>
<li>Your Innermost self is always happy &#8211; even if you&#8217;re not aware of it. So give in to yourself &#8211; be happy.</li>
<li>Let everyone you care about read <a href="http://www.selfhelpwithjohn.com/health/life-tips-part-1-health"title="Life Tips for Great Health" >this series</a>! <img src='http://www.selfhelpwithjohn.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </li>
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<p>As usual, please share your own tips and thoughts in the comments, and share this series with your friends using the buttons below.</p>
<p>I hope you&#8217;ve found this series interesting, thought provoking and inspiring.  If you have any suggestions or requests for future series, please drop me a note either in the comments, or via my contact page.</p>
<p>God bless! <img src='http://www.selfhelpwithjohn.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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<p><a href="http://www.selfhelpwithjohn.com/general/life-tips-part-3-society"title="Life Tips for a Loving Society" >Previous: Life Tips for a Loving Society</a></p>
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		<title>Life Tips Part 3 &#8211; Society</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Jan 2011 09:12:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is the third post in a series of Life Tips.  Part 1 covered Life Tips for Great Health, whilst part 2 was Life Tips for a Magnetic Personality.  Today we&#8217;re going to look at the broader subject of society and how we can strengthen our relationships and value in the wider community. Life Tips [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is the third post in a series of <strong>Life Tips</strong>.  Part 1 covered <a href="http://www.selfhelpwithjohn.com/health/life-tips-part-1-health"title="Life Tips for Great Health" >Life Tips for Great Health</a>, whilst part 2 was <a href="http://www.selfhelpwithjohn.com/general/life-tips-part-2-personality"title="Life Tips for a Magnetic Personality" >Life Tips for a Magnetic Personality</a>.  Today we&#8217;re going to look at the broader subject of society and how we can strengthen our relationships and value in the wider community.</p>
<h3>Life Tips for a Loving Society</h3>
<ol>
<li><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-123" title="Friends" src="http://www.selfhelpwithjohn.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/friends.jpg" alt="" width="134" height="192" />Call your family often.</li>
<li>Each day give something good to others.</li>
<li>Forgive everyone for everything.</li>
<li>Spend time with people over the age of 70 &amp; under the age of 6.</li>
<li>Try to make at least three people smile each day.</li>
<li>What other people think of you is none of your business.</li>
<li>Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.</li>
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<p>My favourite here is number 5 and I see it as my mission to find people who really need to smile and to get a smile out of them! <img src='http://www.selfhelpwithjohn.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Please share your own tips in the comments and feel free to share this post with your friends using the convenient buttons below.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.selfhelpwithjohn.com/general/life-tips-part-2-personality"title="Life Tips for a Magnetic Personality" >Previous: Life Tips for a Magnetic Personality</a></p>
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		<title>Life Tips Part 2 &#8211; Personality</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Jan 2011 08:01:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yesterday, we looked at tips for optimum health.  Today, we&#8217;ve got a selection of great tips to help you to have the kind of personality that people want to be around. Life Tips for a Magnetic Personality Don&#8217;t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about. Don&#8217;t have [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yesterday, we looked at <a href="http://www.selfhelpwithjohn.com/health/life-tips-part-1-health"title="Life Tips for Great Health" >tips for optimum health</a>.  Today, we&#8217;ve got a selection of great tips to help you to have the kind of personality that people want to be around.</p>
<h3>Life Tips for a Magnetic Personality</h3>
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<li><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-120" title="Jump" src="http://www.selfhelpwithjohn.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/Jump.jpg" alt="" width="128" height="192" />Don&#8217;t compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.</li>
<li>Don&#8217;t have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.</li>
<li>Don&#8217;t overdo. Keep your limits.</li>
<li>Don&#8217;t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.</li>
<li>Don&#8217;t waste your precious energy on gossip.</li>
<li>Dream more while you&#8217;re awake.</li>
<li>Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.</li>
<li>Forget issues of the past. Don&#8217;t remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.</li>
<li>Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don&#8217;t hate others.</li>
<li>Make peace with your past so it won&#8217;t spoil the present.</li>
<li>No one is in charge of your happiness except you.</li>
<li>Realize that life is a school and you&#8217;re here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.</li>
<li>Smile and laugh more.</li>
<li>You don&#8217;t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.</li>
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<p>Please share your own tips in the comments, and use the links below to share these tips with your friends.</p>
<p>Also, if you didn&#8217;t catch part 1, please click the link below to read it now:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.selfhelpwithjohn.com/health/life-tips-part-1-health"title="Life Tips for Great Health" >&lt; Life Tips Part 1 &#8211; Health</a></p>
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		<title>Blogs of the Week &#8211; w/c 11th Jan 2010</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jan 2010 19:37:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[For some reason, it seems to have been a really quiet week on the personal development blogging front.  Two of the four blog picks that I&#8217;m bringing to you this week are actually from people who I consider to be more usually associated with Internet Marketing rather than self development which makes there inclusion here [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-80" title="Browsing" src="http://www.selfhelpwithjohn.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/Browsing1.jpg" alt="Browsing" width="133" height="200" />For some reason, it seems to have been a really quiet week on the personal development blogging front.  Two of the four blog picks that I&#8217;m bringing to you this week are actually from people who I consider to be more usually associated with Internet Marketing rather than self development which makes there inclusion here pretty special.  To be fair though, these people have only achieved so much in their lives due to their strong values and hard work &#8211; traits that we&#8217;d all aspire to.</p>
<p>With that in mind, let&#8217;s get straight into the picks.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.alexmandossian.com/2010/01/12/1297/" rel="nofollow" title="Opens in a new window"  target="_blank"><strong> Introducing the “Think – Play” Matrix</strong></a> &#8211; Alex Mandossian is already well known in Internet Marketing and he&#8217;s always struck me as a very balanced and organized person.  Recently, he&#8217;s shifted his focused more towards productivity and as such, I would expect to see more of his posts in my &#8216;Blogs of the Week&#8217;.</p>
<p>This particular article perfectly illustrates why I like to read Alex&#8217;s stuff.  He takes the popular cliché of &#8220;work hard, play hard&#8221; and puts a scientific framework around it so that the concepts behind it make sense.  I can&#8217;t do it justice here &#8211; go and read the article! <img src='http://www.selfhelpwithjohn.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.briantracy.com/blog/general/a-balanced-life-part-1/" rel="nofollow" title="Opens in a new window" rel="bookmark"  target="_blank">A Balanced Life–Part 1</a></strong> &#8211; Whilst Alex Mandossian may be new to you, I&#8217;m sure that Brian Tracy isn&#8217;t!  In this first part of his series on &#8220;A Balanced Life&#8221;, Brian gives us a foundation to achieve that elusive balance in our lives.  As usual with his work, it comes across as really simple and straightforward, but the messages that he includes are invaluable.</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.chrisg.com/positive-thinking-fix/" rel="nofollow" title="Opens in a new window" rel="bookmark"  target="_blank">Why Positive Thinking Doesn’t Work for You and How to Fix it</a></strong> &#8211; I&#8217;m more used to writing about Chris Garrett on my <a href="http://www.JohnLandells.com" rel="nofollow" title="Opens in a new window"  target="_blank">Internet Marketing blog</a>, however he too seems to be sharing more insight these days into his personal development habits that have led to his success.  I&#8217;ve never been a fan of positive thinking in and of itself for the exact reasons that Chris shares in this post.  Go and have a read of it and let me know in the comments below whether you agree or disagree with his views.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.positivityblog.com/index.php/2010/01/15/5-ways-of-using-limits-to-get-more-enjoyment-out-of-your-life-today/" rel="nofollow" title="Opens in a new window"  target="_blank"><strong>5 Ways of Using Limits to Get More Enjoyment Out of Your Life Today</strong></a> -This is a blog that I&#8217;ve only recently started to follow (thanks to a tip from Chris Garrett!) and I can tell you that quality of the content is fantastic!  This post is a perfect example.  It illustrates how a simple idea (setting limits) can have a major impact on your life.  I would encourage you to read this and to subscribe to Henrik&#8217;s great blog.</p>
<p>I&#8217;d love to get your feedback on the ideas shared in these posts as well as any tips for any personal development bogs that I&#8217;m not writing about.  Please use the comments section to get in touch &#8211; I read and reply to every post personally.  Also, please use the links below to share this post and give YOUR followers the benefit of these insights.</p>
<p>Best wishes,</p>
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		<title>Blogs of the Week &#8211; w/c 4th Jan 2010</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Jan 2010 09:21:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s been an interesting week in the personal development blogosphere.  There don&#8217;t seem to have been the volume of posts as usual, and those that were there weren&#8217;t up to the usual high standard.  Either that means that my circle of blogs is too restricted, or people are starting the New Year more slowly.  Whatever [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s been an interesting week in the personal development blogosphere.  There don&#8217;t seem to have been the volume of posts as usual, and those that were there weren&#8217;t up to the usual high standard.  Either that means that my circle of blogs is too restricted, or people are starting the New Year more slowly.  Whatever the case, here are the blog posts that did stand out to me:</p>
<p><a href="http://ittybiz.com/how-to-make-unstupid-goals/" rel="nofollow" title="Permanent link to How to Make Unstupid Goals" rel="bookmark"  target="_blank">How to Make Unstupid Goals</a> &#8211; On Monday, I wrote a post about <a href="http://www.selfhelpwithjohn.com/goals/new-years-resolutions" target="_self">New Years Resolutions</a> and why I felt that they were often unproductive.  This post from IttyBiz makes the same message but from a different angle.  Well worth a read.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.positivityblog.com/index.php/2010/01/04/how-to-make-that-change-stick-the-11-point-checklist-for-2010/" rel="nofollow"  target="_blank">How to Make that Change Stick: The 11 Point Checklist for 2010</a> &#8211; I&#8217;m a big (and relatively new) fan of the <a href="http://www.positivityblog.com/" rel="nofollow" title="Opens in a new window"  target="_blank">Positivity Blog</a> and I&#8217;m guessing that you&#8217;ll see regular entries in my &#8220;Blogs of the Week&#8221; posts from them.  This is a great post for anyone looking to create lasting change this year, and I particularly like it because it goes to 11&#8230;! <img src='http://www.selfhelpwithjohn.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />   (please excuse the obscure Spinal Tap reference!)</p>
<p><a href="http://tomziglar.com/2010/01/06/cat-scan/" rel="nofollow" title="Opens in a new window"  target="_blank">CAT Scan</a> &#8211; Zig Ziglar is someone who I really admire and draw huge inspiration from.  I know that his health has finally forced him to slow down a little, but it&#8217;s great to keep up with him via his son Tom&#8217;s blog.  This week, we learn about a health scare which had Zig making an unexpected trip to the hospital, and what really inspired me was how he handled it.  If you&#8217;ve ever heard Zig speak, you&#8217;ll know what a great sense of humor he has and this is evident from Tom&#8217;s writing.</p>
<p><a href="http://blog.mrfire.com/the-checklist-manifesto/" rel="nofollow" title="Opens in a new window"  target="_blank">“The Checklist Manifesto”</a> &#8211; Whilst my Christian background makes me wary of much of the &#8220;Law of Attraction&#8221; teachings (more on this in the future) I do have a lot of respect for Dr Joe Vitale.  Apart from anything else, he&#8217;s a great copywriter and any of us who write for a living can learn massively from him.  In this post, he talks about how we can use checklists in our business.  As is typical of his style, he puts the message across in an incredibly gentle and simple manner which I would encourage you to read for yourself.  Once you&#8217;ve read it, take some time to reflect on it and you&#8217;ll find great power in his words.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.positivityblog.com/index.php/2010/01/07/the-power-of-beginning-three-thoughts-from-the-last-2400-years/?utm_source=feedburner&amp;utm_medium=feed&amp;utm_campaign=Feed%3A+ThePositivityblog-PutSomePersonalDevelopmentAndPositivityIntoYourLife+%28The+PositivityBlog+-+Put+some+personal+development+and+positivity+into+your+life%29&amp;utm_content=Bloglines" rel="nofollow" title="Opens in a new window"  target="_blank">The Power of Beginning: Three Thoughts from the Last 2400 Years</a> &#8211; I told you I was a fan of the Positivity Blog &#8211; here&#8217;s another great post from them!  There are times in our lives when we profoundly experience the &#8220;<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aha_effect" rel="nofollow" title="Learn about the A-Ha Effect on Wikipedia (opens in new window)"  target="_blank">A-ha Effect</a>&#8220;.  As I&#8217;ve been focusing on my personal development over the past few years there have been 3 significant moments like this for me.  If only this post had been available a few years ago&#8230;! <img src='http://www.selfhelpwithjohn.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>That&#8217;s it for this week.  I&#8217;d love to hear from you regarding any posts that spoke to you this week.  Please drop me a note in the comments to share your finds.</p>
<p>Best wishes,<br />
<img class="alignnone size-full wp-image-38" title="John Landells" src="http://www.selfhelpwithjohn.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/sig.jpg" alt="John Landells" width="185" height="71" /></p>
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